I'm new to join mums net but offen read through the site but decided to post to see if anyone can help.
My son is in reception (age 4) and nothing I do is making him behave at school.
He is starting to get the reputation of been the naughty kid already but he's only naughty at school.
At home I have two well behaved kids (I have a 5 year old girl and she's never naughty at home or school). But at school he's the opposite. He dosnt listen, hits other kids, won't sit still and is constantly been silly.
School have a behaviour chart that at the moment is a volcano (there learning about dinosaurs) on the wall with all the kids photos on and my child is always on the dam volcano. I also get the teachers telling me that he's had another bad day and didn't listen nearly every day. I now withhold the after school treat if he's on the volcano at all and if he's at the top then he gets his ipad taken away for that day but he dosnt care. Iv started taking other toys away till he has a good day at school and said he can have a friend over for tea if he can be good but this hasn't helped either.
He's a very clever little boy so it's making me so sad that he's not showing school what I see at home. I don't know what else to do with him. Any help or advice would be very grateful I feel like I'm going insane. I hate been the mean mam all the time.
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My son won't behave at school! (age 4) but is good at home help!
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Cheryl3318 · 02/02/2018 14:41
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