This will be long, sorry. I let my children have more freedom than many do, and we live in a rural-ish, pretty safe area. This morning, dd's friend rang asking her to go to the beach. I drove her to the station for 11.00. Friends were waiting. Friend said her dad would be along in a minute - I said that I didn't have his mobile number. Friend said that dad had said they didn't know when they were getting back but they would ring me when dd needed picking up. I said OK and left. No phone call by 6.00. I rang round, got the friend's dad's mobile. DD comes to phone and says they hadn't been to the beach after all, but they'd spent the day on the Rec. No grown ups there at all. I would probably have let her go to the Rec, but she hasn't done it before and I really think friend's dad should have told me the plan had changed. So should dd, and I left her in no doubt that if something like this happens again she rings me at once. But should the dad have rung me? Or am I being too precious?
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