Hello all. Not really sure whereto start tbh. Im newly divorced (husband and i seperated when i was 6 wks pg with our no.2 - he was abusive - been through court custody battles as he essentially kidnapped our son for months, court finally ordered his return to my care in Aug - absolute worst time of my life)
So now DS is 20 months, and im 35 wks pg, i have no support, estranged family as monther is sadly more interested in drugs than her children/grandchildren. I've been doing ok considering, but DS's behavior (although im sure is 'normal' for his age) has become so very challenging...all he wants to do is bite me, hit me, throw major tantrums all.the.time, hurls himself around in buggy in public which gets me some awful looks, slams the tv, bangs doors, throws his food and drink, pulls wires (which are safely tacked down with cable tacks) which then have to be re-fixed, hits my bump, kicks me during nappy changes, hits the cats, pulls other children's hair at play groups, ... And now refuses to go to sleep at night, he had been a great sleeper from the age of 1yr...perhaps sleep regression???
Im just lost as to ehat to do, im absolutely terrified how things are going to be when baby's here shortly! Im still in a 1 bedroom flat, been trying to be moved since pg with no.1, but still no closer now pg with no.2...will probably still be here until no.2 is nearing 1yr which is not good. I have one cot one side of my bed, and one cot the other side. Can i do this? Any advice? What happened to my sweet little boy?
Dont get me wrong, he's still my sweet little boy (half the time) but I don't know how to discipline, if appropriate at this age etc...ive tried distraction, removing him from the situation, removing the item, explaining how biting/hitting hurts, telling him off, ignoring the behavior, turning the tv off when he slams it...pretty much everything.
Quite frankly im tired...emotionally, mentally, physically...
I should be excited about my upcoming new eddition (which of course i am, dont get me wrong) but im TERRIFIED!
Any advice, words of wisdom, support, GREATLY appreciated.
Tia xxx
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Single parent, very challenging toddler behavior, due no.2 in 5 wks...HELP/SUPPORT/ADVICE :(
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Allmychildrenhavepaws · 24/12/2017 10:09
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