So my son is two in a couple of months. For the last six months-ish he has really been testing us. He knows I am the 'softer' parent. He won't nap for me, but will if his Dad takes him. When I try, I get screaming and sobbing, whereas he lays straight down and goes off no problem for his Dad! He will get so tired from refusing to nap that he then just whinges and whines and plays up, yet he still won't sleep. If my Mom or sister in law have him for the day, he will nap no problem for an hour or more! I have to get him in the car in the end as he falls asleep before we get out of the road so I can regain some sanity.
He has slept through since 6months old. Always been an early riser (5.30-6) and changing bedtime makes no difference to that. He was poorly a couple of weeks back with an ear infection which he would wake in the night hot and unwell. He's now better but still wakes in the night sobbing. I don't know how to reset him?!
Not only the sleep issue - he is getting worse and worse with eating. He has never been a great eater, but lately he literally goes a whole day only eating one bite of toast, maybe half a strawberry and one spoonful of yoghurt. I've tried him with all sorts of new things as well as usual failsafe options. However, when I pick him up from nursery they say he eats fine on the days he goes. If he's with my Mom, he eats normal.. it's just us. It makes me feel embarrassed, worried and frustrated that it's just us that he won't eat and sleep for, like we are doing something wrong?
He has become super clingy to me, wants to be picked up all of the time and constantly asks for 'cuddles' in order to get his own way. He has so many strops if I say no to something. I don't crack or pander to him, but they're really getting us stressed and down. We don't want him to become this little brat that seems spoiled demanding things from us left right and centre!
Any help/advice/reassurance is eagerly anticipated. I'm losing the will to live!
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My almost 2 year old is really pushing me.. Help needed!
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KayR26 · 12/12/2017 21:31
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