My 9 month old DS is driving me mad! He's my first so I've never known what to expect or had anything to compare him to but I'm starting to worry that his behaviour is not normal and there might be something wrong with him! He cries CONSTANTLY. As in he wakes up and within 5 minutes he'll be crying. He cries when we are out in the pushchair, in the car, in cafes, supermarkets, by the lake and at home! Also, everything is a battle. He fights having his bottle by violently thrashing around in my arms and angrily screaming (dread to think what the neighbours think). This is every feed that he'll do this so I dread even having to feed him. Solid foods are hit and miss. Most of the time he'll spit the food out so it goes all over me and surrounding objects or if the food isn't puree smooth he gags and throws it all up. Nap times.... oh God. He violently fights those too. Pretty much the same scenario as the feeds. I thought that when he'd sit up and start crawling that he'd get better but he hasn't. I can't even change his nappy without him going mad and smacking his legs down on the floor or trying to roll over and get away while screaming (he kicked me in the face last nappy change and split my lip) ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING seems like a battle with him. I am so worn out from it all and drained that I feel pretty much depressed all the time. I dread getting up in the mornings because I find each day with him such a struggle. Is this normal for a 9 month old? Will it get better? Any tips?
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