I'm at my wits end. I'm so fed up with being a parent. I'm a SAHM of a 27 month old boy. He's extremely active but nothing we do wears him out. We do gymnastics, swimming, 2 hour trips to the park, regular play dates and playgroup. He's an awful napper and terrible eater. He barely eats anything and is so picky we can't eat out anymore or travel. I'm miserable at every meal time. He won't nap in the day (sometimes 20- 30 mins in the car) and at night even though he sleeps through it sometimes takes 2 hours to put him to bed. I hardly ever see my husband. We can't go out for date nights because my son doesn't eat or go to sleep easily. None of my friends understand because all their kids eat and sleep. You honestly have no idea how hard that is. That your kid won't even do something basic like sit down and eat toast. I feel so alone and isolated and a total failure as a mum because it's not meant to be this way. I don't want to be angry and resentful towards my child but I'm really struggling. He's been impossible to get to eat and sleep for nearly a year now. I'm just so, so tired of it all. I'm sorry to rant and whinge but everyone keeps telling me it'll get better but it just gets worse. I don't know what to do anymore. I had him assessed for developmental delays (he's speech delayed only), we've seen the GP, paediatrician, feeding specialist... He's been assessed for lip and tongue tie, sensory issues- everyone just tells me to let him decide if he wants to eat dinner or not (did this- he went to bed hungry and lost weight) and just let him cry it out to sleep which even though I'm miserable I can't do because it doesn't feel right to me. I feel like I'm losing my mind. I just can't keep living like this. I'm so tired and everything is so hard. I don't want to hate being a mum. I really don't.
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