Just that really! DS1 is 6 (school year 1) and I am wondering whether he should be a bit more independent than he is. Compared to a lot of his classmates, he seems very immature and I wonder if this is just how he is, or if we've babied him a bit too much.
Recent examples include spending 40 minutes of football training (which is only an hour long) crying, whinging and refusing to play because he wanted to be on x's team and wasn't. Also not listening, rolling around on the floor when he was meant to be following instructions.
At a party recently he wouldn't join in the game they were all playing, then came to sit down later and got upset because he didn't know what everyone was doing.
We went out for lunch earlier and he lost the toy he took with him, but made no effort to keep it safe, just assumed we would find it for him (once we'd got home!)
He doesn't seem to be able to follow simple instructions or listen properly and it's driving me mad, he just seems to please himself. It's hard to explain and I'm not sure I've worded this right, but it's so frustrating because I can't trust him to do anything, especially when we're out and about. When I ask him to do something I have to repeat it at least 4 or 5 times before he'll even start to do it. He just seems to think tha I will sort everything out for him.
So how does your 6 year old boy behave? Does this sound about right or should I be worrying? Does he sound a bit immature or could it be something else? I am at my wits end trying to get him to listen to me and think about what he is doing.
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How independent/responsible is your 6 year old boy?
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MillieMoodle · 27/05/2017 20:06
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