Nothing's ever good enough. Everything has to be done on his timetable. If he doesn't want to do something, he'll do everything he can to get out of it. He's rude, ungrateful, argues back and talks back the whole time.
Last weekend he was awful. He didn't want to go to a sporting club on the Friday as he wanted to play in the park, but we had paid for the club and last week was the last session. Told him he had to go. he accepted this but then refused to get ready. We4'd have had to dress him and carry him there. Didn;'t bother and sent him to bed at 6 instead. He ruined the whole evening by shouting, scraming at us, running up and down stairs, saying it's not fair.
His punishment was no ipad for a week and no park until he'd shown he can behave better.
This week he has been better but he came in from school today and went straight for the sweets for an after school snack. I said no - if you're hungry, there's crumpets, toast, cheese biscuits.
Got backchat and arguing, it's not fair. Tried to talk to him reasonably - here are your options. Which would you like? - he moaned again so I sent him up to his room.
He slammed the door and is having a strop.
He's totallty changed the atmosphere of the house in the first 5 mins after coming in. I really don't like his behaviour at the moment.
Help!!! Is this a phase? How can I deal more effectively with him?
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eelbecomingforyou · 24/05/2017 16:04
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