My DS(5) is still in pull ups at night. He's not wet every night but perhaps 1 in 2/3. He's in the top bunk and does wake up to go and do a wee in the night sometimes - he has a touch nightlight for this purpose plus we have a motion sensor light outside his bedroom door which turns on when he leaves his bed, both of which mean he has good illumination when going to the loo. We have been pretty relaxed about it and he still wear pull-ups - we have tried him without for a few weeks at a time but the constant waking him and changing the bed was making him exhausted in the morning. To be clear, he hardly ever work when wet himself - we discovered he was wet when checking on him and then work him to change him. The doctor isn't worried about it. However, my DM had (another - fairly typical) meltdown about his pull-ups this afternoon, stating that 'it's not normal' and that it was 'neglect' because he is in a bunk bed and therefore doesn't want to leave the bed to use the toilet, and that I am both psychologically and physically damaging him. Now, as I said mainly he sleeps through being wet and we just discover it in the morning or if we check on him before going to bed so the logic doesn't necessarily chime for me (e.g. It's not like he's waking up because he needs to go to the loo but then not going because he's scared to, as my mum seems to be claiming) but, following a monumental row, as usual, I am now worrying if she is right and if I am holding my son back by a) allowing him pull-ups and b) having him in a bunk. Is she right? Should I change things?
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Nighttime pull-ups at 5... and DMs reaction
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CustardLover · 09/05/2017 23:34
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