dd2 (4 - 5 in May) is gregarious and confident. She's charming and adorable but she's the original girl with a curl. DH has taken her to two parties recently when he dropped her off and she barely said goodbye - dived straight in to play with her friends. I took her to one a couple of weeks ago and she was all clingy and sulky "i want you to staa-aaaay" etc etc. I managed eventually to escape the room and until she saw me again she was having a great time. I took her to a party today - I had told her I wasn;t staying. As soon as we arrived she went utterly sulky, wouldn't join in, clinging to me "I want you to staa-aaay" etc etc. I told her I'd stay for 20 mins, during which time she clung to me and refused to play with any of her friends. After 20 mins I told her I was going and she could stay or come with me. she came with me . when we got in the car she had the most almighty strop - refused to get in the car seat. "I want to stay and I want you to stay" ad infinitum. I couldn't get her into the car seat - until I started the engine at which stage she shrieked in fear about the policemen. It was a strop of such dimensions I felt like crying. So anyway here we are at home.(and typically she's now happy as larry...)
At one level I don't think it's unreasonable for a 4 year old to want her parents to stay at a party - but all the evidence (not just party-related - a load of other stuff too) points to this having k'all to do with that and everything to do with manipulating me into doing what she wants. tbh I'm really fed up of it. so evil or reasonable? votes please.
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hatwoman · 11/03/2007 13:24
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