My 9 year old son doesn't like sharing, he has improved a lot since he was little but I am noticing he is still very possessive over his belongings.
He'd sometimes share really well and other times would rather face consequences than let a friend share his things. He had a friend sleepover and his friend wanted to play a particular game on his console and my son didn't want to. I tried everything but he wasn't listening and I even said I will take games away for a week if he doesn't share and he said he'd rather not have it for a week than let his friend play that game. He was happy to play a different game.
He has some paper cranes hanging on his bedroom ceiling. Some have fallen off over the year and left just the piece of string hanging. So I pulled the empty strings down and accidentally pulled a crane down. He got so upset Nd cried and shouted at me and demanded it goes back up even though I couldn't reach the ceiling. I told him his dad will do it once he's off the phone and he went mad demanding I go and tell him to do it right away. He said it might be a paper crane but meant lots to him!
We went away and he had a go at an arcade game which have him a few tickets. Although we were on our way to leaving and the few tickets would not be enough to exchange for anything, he hated the ideal that I mentioned giving it away to someone else playing who could add to their ticket collection. I persuaded him to do it but he was so angry with me after!
Anyone else facing similar issues and have any advice? I'm really struggling to deal with this behaviour that comes across selfish. Tonight he was over tired and I know this can make any kid or adult more grumpy and over reacted but on days when he has had enough sleep, he still behaves this way but just not as bad as tonight.
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9 year old very possessive
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Feellikerubbish · 08/04/2017 23:30
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