My DD (nearly 3) has become such hard work that I am beginning to dread my time with her and I'm hoping and praying that it is just a stage? She doesn't seem to have any major developmental issues other than delayed speech..... but generally just a lot of rage and frustration. We are a pretty calm house, my husband and I are both very laid back and her older brother is completely the opposite, chilled out and very well behaved so it's very out of character for our family, and I find it really upsetting. I just want her to be happy!
DD is just exhausting and whilst we have pockets of pleasant behaviour she spends most of her time grumpily interacting with us. We do loads with her, swimming, playing and lots of positive one to one time and during this time she is a joy - I just want this side of her personality to be the dominant side, rather than the negative side which at the moment I feel is taking over our household.
I make sure she naps, and goes to bed on time with routine but despite all of this she just seems unhappy, it makes me so sad to think that she feels so frustrated! She has got very delayed speech so I am hoping that once this is resolved things may improve, but worry that the slightly miserable disposition that she seems to have will be her character for ever!
Beside the constant whining, she's rude, she hits and throw thing. She won't interact with strangers or other children apart from a few. I take her to groups, where she will get involved very minimally but spends the whole time with a fairly glum look on her face. On the school run she won't talk to the other mums who try to engage, and whilst the other siblings charge around playing with each other, she will stick close to me.
We started nursery about 6 months ago and she doesn't enjoy it, she won't talk to the teachers or children and participates minimally.
Her language is delayed and I really hope that the frustration that I expect she feels is the catalyst for her behaviour but my god it's tiring. She has no patience and will shout and scream at me if I don't get what she wants immediately.
Anyone got any encouraging words or wisdom, I would say our discipline is fairly standard, we do warnings and time out and I refuse to get her things if she shouts and screams, so I don't think we can change much there?
Is this just a stage!??? I really hope so, at the moment I find it so hard to enjoy her, which I feel terrible for saying but it's the truth.
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Did you awful 2 year old turn into a lovely child! At wits end with DD.
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misshoohaa · 21/03/2017 09:30
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