I am a mom to 5 year old twins. I am a stay at home mom who also has a small daycare with two other kids, ages 3 and 4. My daughter is extremely mean to them. She tells them she doesn't like them or coments negatively on projects or drawings. She is constantly yelling at them to MOVE or telling them to do stuff. She also have a huge attitude in her voice when she talks. She makes fun of them to a point where they will cry. She thinks it's funny, which makes them even more upset. Today as we were taking potty breaks, the 4 year old boy was sithing instead of standing. She made it a point to make fun of him that he wad sitting. Of course everyone was in on it. He cried and I hugged. I was so upset with her that I sent her for an early nap. I could not deal without exploding! She is also VERY bossy! Even if I'm right there and I say "Ryan can you please put you plate in the sink?" She will instantly say something like "RYAN! Mom said put you plate in the sink! Do it!" It's like she thinks she's the boss. I have tried talking to her, taking away privileges, time outs. I can't put up with it much longer, it's mentally draining. What am I doing wrong?
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