I'm new here and wasn't sure where to post this topic. Basically my boy is 5 and is at foundation stage 2. I just came to know that during swimming classes all the children (boys and girls) are put in one changing room and made to change in front of each other. My son came back telling me that his friends saw his private parts and didn't seem to be comfortable with it. I honestly don't feel it's the right thing to do so I had a word this morning with the head teacher and she kept assuring me that it's a normal thing and we shouldn't worry about it and that children are innocent. The thing is it's because the children are so innocent why expose them to nudity especially that children are very much curious at this age and don't understand many things!! I was further more shocked to know that this continues to happen up to year 4 when children are almost 8 years old .. am I the only one who thinks this is not normal!!! Should I escalate this and ask for it firmly to be stopped! My husband was telling how traumatized he was when a nude picture of a female fell into his hands when he was only 6 and had never seen female genitalia before and thought that the lady in the picture had an injury to her private parts and that they were cut by a knife and as a child he never spoke about it to anyone's s just grew with it.. I don't want something similar to happen to my child god forbids. I already tried explaining to my child what's the difference between boys and girls in general.. I really don't know how to deal with this.. any help or advise??!
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