DS is nearly 3 and a half. I feel like we are still living in an extreme version of the terrible twos.
he is apparently v well behaved at school, but at home can act like a wild animal. when he is one of his 'moods' he is almost impossible to contain. For eg he will go over to the kitchen sink, climb up, start splashing water ALL over the kitchen- I pull him down, then he'll grab the coffee pot and throw it on the floor. I turn around to clear up briefly and he'll have grabbed a toy plastic spade and will have opened the fridge and started bashing the contents with the spade and things are falling out. etc etc. He's not always like this but gets in these destructive moods (not a tantrum and not angry/ upset just totally wild.) He is also a bolter and will regularly run off as fast as he can in the opposite direction whenever we are out, which is terrifying. He runs off in the house too, if we are trying to get him dressed etc, he'll break free and sprint off.
At other times he can be very sweet and very focused (when he has our full attention on a game or similar he is much better but that isn't always possible with other DS. I think part of it is attention seeking but he just seems to have this wild energy that he and we can't contain. We've tried time outs but they just seem to make him angry and don't seem to do much. We do lots of positive reinforcement for good behaviour, and enforce consequences for bad, but none of it seems to make a blind bit of difference. He has started having tantrums too, although these seem more normal and more like his elder brother was at this age. it's the wild energy thing that really bothers me and seems different from most kids his age.
He is developing normally in other ways (I think)- learning well- taught himself all his letters, plays well at school and v engaged.
Does this sound normal to people or as though there is a problem? It's exhausting and we are totally worn out from it and it's taking so much attention away from DS6 that it's hard on him too.
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3 year old like a wild animal. is this normal
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deliverdaniel · 23/02/2017 18:36
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