Wasn't quite sure whether to post this here or on the sleep board, or perhaps even weaning, so please go easy on me.
DD2 is 9 months old, and has been transitioning to nursery the last few weeks (spending a few hours there about 3 times a week). As a result I have had to give up all daytime bf, although she's still bf at night and first thing (and often during the night because she co-sleeps with us). She seems to have really struggled with the nursery visits, and gets very anxious when separated from me. She also refuses to accept food from nursery staff, although occasionally they've coaxed her to have a bit. I should say the nursery staff have been great, and it's the nursery my other DC went to, so well known to me.
In the last week or so, she's more or less stopped eating all solids, even at home. Spoon feeding is refused, and while she'll accept finger foods, all the bits that she nibbles off are spat out! This is now combined with her basically bf all night (presumably to make up all those missing calories). Up until a couple of weeks ago, I'd bf her and put her to bed at around 6:30/7, and we wouldn't hear a peep until 10:30/11pm, when we'd usually go up to bed ourselves. Now she will not settle in the evenings at all! The moment I try to leave the room she screams! It's like she's scared to go to sleep in case I disappear. In my mind, the separation anxiety, the refusal to eat, the all-night bf, and the failure to settle in the evenings are all linked, and I just don't know how best to tackle this without upsetting her more. I'm afraid I'm not prepared to do cc or any kind of 'crying it out'.
I'm really at my wits end though. I'd rather not give up bf, but am wondering whether that would help? Any advice gratefully appreciated. I feel faintly ridiculous considering this is my third DC.
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Separation anxiety, food, and sleep in 9 month old baby; all advice appreciated
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MotherofPearl · 04/02/2017 18:58
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