First time posting, I'm looking for some advice.
DS3 & 2 months has an ongoing speech issue. His speech is currently at the level of an 18 month old and we start speech therapy soon.
He has been in nursery 3 weeks and today I attended an MPP meeting (multi professional panel) to discuss any further support he could be offered. His playgroup teacher, current nursery teacher and health visitor all attended. There were no further concerns voiced during the meeting however, his nursery teacher took me aside after school to tell me he had attacked another pupil today and apparently this is a regular occurrence that she didn't want to tell me about because she was worried about upsetting me...DS has always been taught that hitting is bad and he knows that it hurts and makes people sad, he knows that he has to say sorry and is able to.
She went on to say she doesn't know what to do with DS, that there is nothing I can do at home and that were they not so short of staff they would be able to monitor him better. She said that she "doesn't believe" this behaviour didn't occur in playgroup (it didn't to this excess, slapping and pinching but not attacking others). She says that his behaviour isn't a symptom of speech delay and would like to do an ISCAN referral, a process we have only recently gone through which is how speech therapy came about. She seems to have little to no knowledge of his needs and has admitted having no idea what he's saying because he still speaks in single words or 3 to 4 word sentences.
I know that DS has issues which require additional help and support but she insisted in the MPP that 1:1 support isn't something he requires. I feel at a loss with this. I am trying my absolute hardest with DS and have pushed for referrals and assessments for months before we were referred to speech therapy. I feel that I am failing and not doing enough to support him and that the teacher must feel this way too.
I am unsure what to do now, I'm not against another referral being made but this teachers honesty about not knowing how to handle DS doesn't fill me with confidence.
Does anyone else have boys of this age who hit and have a speech delay?
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DS3 Speech delay, hitting (long)
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DinahLou · 23/01/2017 17:55
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