Literally anything and everything. Her belongings, DS's belongings, occasionally mine and DH's. Books, toys, bits of puzzle, bits of lego, rice cakes (not in a packet), clothes - you name it - she will pack it into backpacks, suitcases, Sainsbury's bags . . . . And it's not stuff that's lying around, she will seek it out. But there is no theme. And I've just noticed her Sylvanian Family house - aside from stripping all the animals, she's also shoved a pair of bunny slippers, two Thomas the Tank Engine books and an empty loo roll into their house. Why. WHY?? Is this some deep rooted insecurity? Does anybody know what causes it? It's been going on for as long as she's been able to pack anything and it's driving me dotty because I regularly have to unpack five or six bags to find DS's library book/ the alarm clock/ her hair brush/ my mascara. Oh, and we have mice. Because she fills them with half eaten food. She herself forgets what is in them - and it isn't about what is in them, it's just about filling them. For context, DH and I are happily married, she has regular meals (i.e. she doesn't need to stock pile food), there's never been any upheaval, we've never moved house while she's been alive, I unpack the minute we get back from holiday and unpack while we're on holiday so it's not like she sees us 'living out of a suitcase' ever, I vaguely attachment parented her (couldn't breastfeed beyond a month, but she still sleeps in my bed) she's never had a night without either DH or I being there (I occasionally have to travel for work but we've never left her - or DS - with anybody else.) I got so sick of it I confiscated her bags once for a few days (also she had ripped up a book to make it fit which I was very cross about) but gave them back as promised and she's doing it again. She carries them all around with her too. And wants to take them out when we go out. Though doesn't ever get anything out of them. Has anyone ever experienced anything similar . . . ?
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Help: 4yo DD obsessively packs bags, all day long, with anything and everything.
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Puffykins · 19/01/2017 21:51
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