I'm at the end of my tether. She's 9 next week and the most loved and loving child you could ask for. Until she flips. And she can flip over just about anything, in a split second. That's fine, hormones etc, I understand that. But it's how she flips that's the problem.
This morning she got into a fight with dd2 (nearly 5) and it ended up with her slapping me and kicking me. She's an average sized kid, not fat but solid enough and so her kicking is pretty much like being kicked by an adult. She's been sent to her room and had her new iPod confiscated but she keeps coming back to have another go and I'm at the end of my tether. We've tried talking her down, punishments, confiscating things, sending her to her room, trying to talk to her when she's calm, everything you can think of but we're stumped.
In a while what will happen is that she'll come in all meekly with a beautifully written sorry note and she'll mean every word. Until the next time. (She has just come in to apologise and is now sobbing in her room because I "wouldn't forgive her")
I don't know what to do. I already take anti depressants and don't know where to go from here. All I want to do is run away. Anyone got any ideas because it's reaching a critical point and I have nightmares over what she'll be like as a teenager.
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Unbearable nearly 9yo. How would you deal with her?
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ShelaghTurner · 08/01/2017 11:33
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