my ds had a massive tantrum today so i warned him twice then put him in his push chair. He continued the tantrum and i refused to pay him attention other than saying things like 'mummy wont listen until you stoy screaming and talk nicely'. I dont want him to think he will get attention from me when he bahaves like this
He continued like this for about 20 mins and i just stood still behind the push chair as i was getting stressed. A woman came over and said 'they all do that its not very nice is it'. I thought thats nice, having a bit of sympathy for a change rather than dirty 'bad mother'looks.
But then she said "you should get him out and just give him a cuddle thats all he wants. They do this for attention"
I said i will, but when he's stopped all this. She gave me a 'bad mother' look then walked off.
Am i doing the wrong thing then?
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Is this the right thing to do in your opinion?
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juicychops · 21/02/2007 15:54
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