My four year old is a bright, inquisitive boy with a very active imagination.
Recently he has started worrying a lot about things - the smoke alarm/house fires, the burglar alarm/someone breaking into the house, doing something 'naughty' (I never tell him he's naughty, he isn't, don't know where he's got it from) and someone calling the police.
It was fine for a while and we would discuss everything and I'd explain things while reassuring him there was nothing to worry about. Recently however (maybe in the last couple of weeks) it has amplified into something that is actually affecting his life, and mine.
He won't eat an ice cream in the street because he's worried it's 'not allowed', he insists on leaving the museum after half an hour as 'they might close and he'll be shut in', he won't go to the zoo santa breakfast thing tomorrow morning as we have to 'sneak in early' and he's frantic that someone might call the police.
It's driving me mad. I've tried everything. We've written down everything he's worried about, to show we're taking it seriously. I've explained to him that I am here to keep him safe and I wouldn't lie to him or put him at risk. I've got cross with him and told him to snap out of it. Nothing works.
Is this normal, or do we have a problem here? There is nothing in his life that should make him anxious. Nothing. The only thing that is affecting his happiness is all from inside him and it's breaking my heart
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When does anxiety become an actual issue?
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cordiality · 23/12/2016 19:27
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