He's just turned 4 last week.
His behaviour is awful and just not how I have brought him up at all.
He answers back, shouts no at me. Screams when he doesn't get his own way, I mean high pitched full on screams, refuses to do anything I ask. Even something like putting his own shoes on is a TWENTY FUCKING MINUTE screaming fit every day.
I've tried getting cross. I've tried completely ignoring him, I've tried time out, I've tried talking nicely. NOTHING works. He can be a really really horrible child.
Problem is when we are out, he's fine usually, very polite, intelligent, nursery have no concerns at all socially or educationally. He's fine.
Just at home he'd absolutely horrendous. He's always been a high maintenance child, never wanted to sleep, always had tantrums from really early on, he had to be forced into Prams and car seats from 6 months old screaming. He's just always been bloody defiant.
I don't know what I've done wrong.
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Need help with my 4yo
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Mol1628 · 22/12/2016 18:19
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