I don't know what else to do, I wondered whether anyone else has any experience of how to handle it.
For a long time we have noticed our daughter is obsessive about sugar and we have tried to educate and teach about making the right food choices. Unfortunately it just isn't working. I don't want to have to stop buying it therefore restricting access to it, because when she is on her own in the real world, she needs to make the choices for herself.
She will try to put tea spoons full of sugar on cereal, would drink hot chocolate all day long if we didn't try and say she should only have one a day. We have had to say pocket money is not allowed to be spent on sweets as she will spend all of it at the sweet shop.
On a daily basis she will have:
Breakfast - cereal
School lunch box - sandwich with two pieces of bread, packet of crisps, cereal bar, fruit flakes and a yoghurt (frube like thing).
After school snack when she comes in which is a two finger kit Kat or something of a similar size then tea with the family, followed by a yoghurt and if she can get away with it a couple of digestives with her yoghurt.
Does this sound a normal amount of food? I think it sounds plenty. I have just had an email from the school to say I owe them money, she has been buying stuff every day from the school canteen on her dinner card - a sausage roll every day sometimes accompanied by a waffle or cookies. I have found a stash of wrappers in her room where she has been taking two kitkats per day and eating them both, and to top it off she said yesterday could she give a packet of chocolate buttons to her friend at school in a Christmas card, we said yes, she then went upstairs and snaffled them instead - so lying about an act of kindness to eat more chocolate :-( Now she has been found out, she claims she was hungry.
I have toyed with taking her to the doctors to have some bloods taken to check whether there is a medical problem?
I am embarrassed to say I have today resorted to shouting and saying how disappointed i am, have taken her phone off her as punishment for lying and have threatened that I won't be buying any more sugar.
She just doesn't seem to have an off switch and would honestly just keep going. I think my mum has noticed a problem - when we went out for a coffee one day, she started trying to add sugar to hot chocolate, I said she didn't need to add sugar to a drink with whippy cream and marshmallows on the top, she had a slice of cake (so did I), and I had scraped a little of the cream off the cake as it was a bit rich, she then asked if she could eat the bit I had scraped off having just downed her own cake and hot chocolate. Maybe as I am more conscious of it, I am getting paranoid.
You hear people with eating disorders etc saying about horrible experiences when they were younger, being called fat etc, and I don't want to harp on about it too much for fear of causing some pyschologocal harm, but it is becoming a real bone of contention :-(
Any ideas would be greatly appreciated
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12 year old girl addicted to sugar?
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vilamoura2003 · 17/12/2016 12:12
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