I'm hoping so much that other mums may be able to advise. My four year old started nursery back in August (its his first nursery as we lived in a very rural area before).
He is generally a really well behaved little boy, plays well alone and with other kids, even if a little over excited sometimes, nothing unusual. However, the nursery have pulled me to one side 3 times in a month telling me he is acting manic, pushing other children at random and being generally disruptive. This behavior has only ever been at nursery.
I play fight & tickle my son as I think its healthy and not convinced that's the problem? I'm making sure my son has plenty breakfast and an extra 5 mins in bed if he's tired, hoping he'll be calmer at nursery. I tell him to be gentle with his hands, use kind words and share with other children.
He is an only child but has a lot of loving family, older cousins who are fine with him and myself and his dad don't worry about this at home.
Last Friday I was embarrassed and so upset as the granny of one of the kids was talking about my son out loud in the playground at pick up, in my ear shot and in front of all the other parents. I usually get on with her and chat, so was really shocked. She wouldn't say hello and was giving me scolding looks. Its ruined my weekend worrying.
I don't know whether to persevere or pull my son out (of nursery)? Its a wonderful nursery, great staff, facilities, eco award etc. Such a shame if he had to change before school next year.
Any help much appreciated???!!!
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Four year old behavior concerns at nursery
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MamaLoz81 · 11/12/2016 18:37
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