I've posted about him before but as an overview I think his behaviour is 'normal' developmentally but on the extreme end of the scale. He is hitting, throwing toys, trying to break things. His tantrums can go on an hour or more. He is defiant and stubborn.
Today he ran away into the supermarket because the tray he picked in the cafe was dirty and I picked a clean one. I went after him but lost him quite quickly as it was busy. I went and asked my mum to stand at the doors (the only exit) then started to look for him. After a couple of minutes I went back to the cafe to check there before asking staff for help.
He was stood in the middle of the cafe with a tray looking scared and lost. I ran up to him but before I could even say anything he threw the tray and started lashing out. He managed to hit me a couple of times while I was getting his harness on him. Is this normal? I was expecting him to be scared and want a cuddle and reassurance. It's like he is always putting on a front.
This episode was followed by shopping where he tried to hit and kick me from the trolley and was rude and surly to me and even strangers who spoke to him. I can't cope anymore. He goes from sunny 'I love yous' to 'go away mammy I don't like you, I'm going to run away and nobody will take care of me' in the blink of an eye and for no reason whatsoever.
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At my wits end with my 3 year old - running away
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DarkDarkNight · 12/11/2016 15:34
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