Please help!
Hi everyone,
Please could someone/anyone offer me some advice about my 16 month old.
She is my second child, I also have a 6 year old daughter who was never like my youngest.
She has tantrums like you would not believe, she is the stroppiest little madam and I don't know what to do with her when she has one of her meltdowns. If I do something that she doesn't like, or take something away from her, or have the audacity to say no to her then she goes into full meltdown mode, throws herself on the floor and screams. I mean actually screams, it's a noise that makes me want to bang my head repeatedly against the wall.
It's becoming particularly bad at tea time when I need to cook tea, she doesn't want me to put her down, she wants to be carried all the time. If I put her down, the meltdown ensues and I actually just stand and stare out the window sometimes wishing I was anywhere else.Distraction doesn't work, television doesn't work, nothing seems to work with this child!
If we're out and she doesn't want to walk or go in her buggy she screams until I put her on my shoulders....I'm sure you can imagine, the list goes on.
She has also started not wanting to go down at bedtime, she wants to be held, she cries and screams in her cot but I have taken to just leaving her because I literally can't cope anymore, I need some time in the evening to be away from her!
I am a single Mum since Jan this year because my husband had an affair, so doing this alone.
My eldest was a little star compared to this. I'm not a soft touch, I am a fairly strict parent I would say. My eldest is a lovely child, people always comment on her manners etc. I just can't understand why my youngest is the way she is or how on earth I am supposed to deal with it.
I am at my wits end, I hate to admit but there's been so many occasions recently where I wish I didn't have her. Which is awful and I feel terrible when she's being a little sweetheart. But that never lasts.
Any help would be much appreciated, I don't know what to do anymore.
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Flickflickyflick · 16/10/2016 09:09
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