I have an almost 4 yo and an 11 mo. For the first 6-8 months of DD2's life, DD1 was very loving. But recently she has become really violent - constantly pulling her arms and legs (really hard), pinching, hitting and squashing her. She knows it's wrong but even when I tell her off, she carries on!
I can see it's attention-seeking and jealousy causing it and I'm trying to give her more one-on-one time but ironically the more violent she is to the baby the more I have to pick the baby up and comfort her / remove her from the reach of her sister!!
I am trying to be calm and fair in dealing with this but nothing I do or say seems to have any impact and I'm struggling! I find it really hard to get DD1 to listen to me at the best of times!!
Anyone been through this and found any solutions?
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Violence towards baby sibling. Any ideas how to stop it?
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Finelinebetweenchaos · 03/10/2016 21:31
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