He is 7. He has speech issues, toilet issues, learning issues, behaviour issues. He is undergoing assessment for ADHD and autism and waiting to be seen by a paediatrician for his toilet issues.
His life since he started school has been just crap. We have social services involvement. He has moved to a different class and was doing well and now a new school year has meant a new teacher and it seems to be going backwards. It now appears he is being bullied by two children in his class for his speech and being slower in class (telling him he can't count) my older DS (11) witnessed this and told me. He was also randomly mocked on Friday morning for his speech as he stepped out our front door with his brother by a child who knows older DS but didn't know DS2. For no reason just mimicked his speech after DS said something. I'll be seeing the head teacher tomorrow about this.
His Dad has no interest in helping with any of this and has been punishing him for the toilet accidents. I've spoken to him about this dozens of times and each time he says he'll stop doing it but then DS goes to stay and says dad or dad's wife punished him or shouted. Today he came home and told me that dad's wife said he needs a slap and sent to bed (for having an accident). I'm due to see the social worker again this week and will be bringing this up. But really I just want to tell the world to fuck off and leave him alone. He is 7. He didn't ask for any of this. His body is doing things he has no control over and he is being made to feel like shite for it. I'm not asking for advice I just need to vent this as its breaking my heart to watch what it's doing to him. Why are people such bastards?
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I just want to wrap my little boy up and cuddle him close and keep the rest of the world away from him.
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JenLindleyShitMom · 25/09/2016 19:24
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