My dd1 has been fully toilet trained since she was 3. Over the past few months she has been having an increasing amount of soiling accidents, some days none (although these are rare) but mainly between 2-6 a day.
We took her to the gp who thought it was fecal impaction and gave her movicol. This worked, after the 'clear out' for about a week but now we are back to square one.
I think she is withholding. She hasn't ever been noticeable constipated or had hard stools so I don't think it's the 'fear' that is making withhold. She will only ever do a poo at home, never outside in a different toilet although she used to happily go at preschool.
We lost our second baby in March. Her accidents started about 8 weeks after this. I don't know if that could be linked.
We've tried reward charts earning new pants that she got to choose which she loved but tbh didn't make a difference, it was more chance that she had enough 'clean' days to get them. We don't make a big fuss, we gently praise when she tells us (she didn't tell us for a while and got very, very sore).
I'm at an utter loss. Obviously I've booked another appointment with the doc but today I'm just feeling really sad and worried about her. She's not too bothered about it tbh but she'll be at school next year, I worry about her being teased, I'm sad that she's somehow different and I'm so worried that it's linked to something more serious (I think this is my own stuff as we lost dd2 to abnormalities and no reason for loosing ds so I'm kind of convinced I can't make 'normal' children or babies right now)
And now I'm crying.
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Soiling accidents in almost 4yo
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KittyandTeal · 19/09/2016 15:40
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