I'm in need of some help and advice. My daughter is 8 years old was 2 when me and her dad separated. She goes to her dad's every other weekend always has done but every time she comes home she is awful. She's nothing like the child that left on Friday. She acts moody and just goes off to her bedroom. We spoken to she snaps and then bedtime comes and she starts kicking off crying over anything saying it's my fault that I'm not with her dad. Sometimes she says she wishes she had another mum or lived with her dad. She suddenly hates my husband who she actually calls dad any other time, she hates her little brother, she hates her life. She just wishes me and her dad where still together then she wouldn't be sad. The next day she's clingy going to school and usually crys at the slighteat little thing. Then things go bk to normal and she's all happy again. I've never explained to her why I left her dad but felt last night I had to. He doesn't work. He lives with his mum and dad and until recently my daughter was sharing a bed with him when she went to stay there. He now has bunk beds for him and her. When we were together he cheated, he drank and just played video games with his friends. He never helped with the baby god he never even changed her nappy, never woke in the night never even looked after her if I wanted some time to myself (wasn't very often) I'd have to take her to my mums. I really need some help an what to do to change things. I've tried explaining to her that if she lived with her dad she would have to go school and eat her food and go to bed when told to and basically everything she does here. It's coz she goes every other weekend they want it to be fun. I don't know whats best to do anymore. Do I stop her going for a while to see of that helps, or do I let her go every weekend to see of that's it. Please if anyone has been through this I'm really in need of advice.
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My daughters behaviour after spending the weekend with her dad, HELP.
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pinkbex84 · 19/09/2016 09:55
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