My six year old girl goes to my mum and dad's once a week after school and once a week in the holidays. On several occasions now she has really behaved badly for them - today she chucked a massive paddy when it was time to leave the park and I think it just went downhill from there. I mean a full on toddler type tantrum including screaming. She does have a tendency for this type of behaviour but it's been a long time since she did it in public with me. It's usually when she doesn't get her own way and if she does it at home it of course means she definitely doesn't get what she wants, followed by a "consequence" e.g. No telly/ iPad. Today she got sent to bed as soon as we got home.
My mum thinks there is something wrong with her, that she is an unhappy child and I am of course the worst mum in the world.
As a bit of back story I had breast cancer last year and me and their dad separated earlier this year. So I do think for a little kid she has had a lot going on and as a consequence I am perhaps not as strict as I could be. My mum was a strict mum to me so our parenting styles do differ.
My mum and dad are at the point now where they don't want to have her anymore.
Any advice at all? Do you think I need to seek help for her? Perhaps she is unhappy (they see their dad loads, we pretty much get on, certainly in front of them) and I just don't know what to do. Sometimes her tantrums do seem out of control but are quite often fuelled by tiredness/hunger. I feel like I am failing ...
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6 year old behaviour- help!
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twokidsandadog · 24/08/2016 21:10
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