I've been reading a lot of threads about poor behaviour around 3.5/4 year olds. I'm here because I am really struggling to see why on earth he is becoming so violent and angry.
I've never had any real issues with him. He sleeps well, eating isn't great variety wise but eats. He is an only child. He is exceptionally well behaved at school.
Just lately he is becoming more aggressive at home and when out. He gets so angry he punches and kicks others and this is totally not what he's ever done. He really fails to understand that it's unacceptable and will always blame someone else for why he's hit out. I've spoken to him about why we don't hit and how does that make people feel ect.
We use time out but he's sat there for an hour due to refusing to say sorry for his actions. He's very stubborn also so will sit in his room for 2 hours.
I'm not sure what to do... I'm a family support worker and I deal with this all the time with other families but now I can't deal with it myself. I understand children have phases and anger is a normal emotion but it's literally like someone's turned a switch. I'm not sure if it's being out of routine or if it's just something that's happened. I've used time out, removing toys, ignoring him, going to bed early ect and none of it seems to have an effect. I need tips! I feel like a failure... I tell others all the time and yet I can't do it myself
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