my gran , who is a very with it and well to do 89 yo, just came over for a sunday roast. i ended up losing it with dd1, who's nearly 5, as she was being very hyper and silly and ignoring gran's questions. i was so embarassed. i took her upstairs and went ballistic.
she started behaving herself so was allowed down for dinner to eat with us all. then i had the issue of using a knife and fork properly, wandering off from the table , helping herself to seconds......dd2, who is 2.5 showed us that she was eating her sprouts by opening her full mouth wide open!
now i know i shouldnt expect my dds to understand that they have to adapt their behaviour for great gran, but i 'm so aware of their table manners etc when she's around. i know i should try to relax, but my gran is quite uptight- i guess it 's a generation thing in some ways. she has always been a big part of my life, and i dont want her to think my girls have no manners. the trouble is, dh and i are usually quite relaxed, so its hard to strike a balance between what's ok at home, and at a restaurant, for example.
anyone faced similar issues/ got tips on how to deal with it?
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How to deal with children in POLITE COMPANY??
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noonar · 28/01/2007 19:52
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