A lot of the time she is fine, if often slow to respond to requests. She has dyspraxia, but has made good progress this year. But she cannot cope when she is told no, or when plans change. If this happens at the end of the day we get shouting, rudeness ("Im not listening"), stamping, throwing. I've tried taking things away (screen time, trips out), but she cannot connect the punishment with the behaviour, or actually control the behaviour once it starts. I ignore as much as I can, but since school holidays it's getting pretty intolerable. She needs more sleep but I can put her to bed but I can't make her go to sleep. I find it very upsetting that she is so disrespectful, but it makes me worry about her future. Any ideas or suggestions? We have clear, but basic rules, although we probably need a bit more structure (my DP wouldn't be very keen though!). I am tired of it, and would like to have a more harmonious home life where everyone had a nicer time, including her.
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