Have a problem with my DS. He's 8 and I know from a very minor incident a couple of weeks ago that he can lie very, very convincingly now. But that was a minor thing, now something major's cropped up and I'm between a rock and a hard place. My neighbours (who are the loveliest, kindest couple and we have a great relationship) just got back from a week away and came round with some little presents and to thank me for looking after the house and garden. A little after that they noticed they had a broken and bent back wing mirror (car was parked on the drive all week when they were away). I don't know what happened but I have a very strong suspicion that my DS might have done it when playing football out the front with a friend from down the road. He denies all knowledge of course but he was so convincing the other day that I don't know whether he's lying or telling the truth this time. Last time I knew it was him and just wanted him to own up, but he was so utterly convincing that he had me questioning myself in the end! Eventually he admitted it but it took an hour on and off. This is much more serious and I need to get to the bottom of it somehow. It's an electronic wing mirror as they all are these days and will cost £500 to replace :( They are such lovely people and have supported me through some very difficult times - if it was my DS they deserve the truth. Obviously it was an accident, but how do I get him to come clean? If it was him of course...if it wasn't I'm going to feel even worse than I do now! I think that's called a no win situation! Please help.
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