I realise this is part and parcel of being a 3 year old but how do you deal with the constant moaning and crying, I'm really struggling to keep my cool and have just thrown a tantrum myself and sent her upstairs to her room without any dinner as today has just been just awful, moaning and tantrums since she got up. It's literally constant, no break between moans, if I ignored them I'd be ignoring her all day!
Nothing is ever right for her. How do you all deal with it? I've tried- ignoring, telling her I would talk to her once she stopped moaning and talked to me properly, sending her to her room every time she moaned, shouting etc etc. I feel like I've tried everything!! I give her choices about things (such as 'do you want the blue plate or the pink plate') but she just moans when she gets the plate she asked for....
I do wonder sometimes if she is slightly on the autistic spectrum (apologies if this is completely the wrong term but I'm a bit ignorant when it comes to things like that) as she's very 'particular' about things, likes lining things up, hates 'dirt' and being dirty, loves routine and gets frustrated when things don't happen that were supposed to, but she's been like that since a baby and it's just getting worse and worse. Other people just say that's how she is which is fine but they don't have to bloody live with her!!
Please help before I end up taking a long walk off a short pier!
Any advice would be most appreciated.
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3.10y constant moaning/crying/tantrums
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JLbaby · 09/05/2016 17:35
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