Hi I'm just after some advice or people who have been or going through a similar stage with their toddler.
My son is nearly 2 years 8 months. He goes to a child minder twice per week 9-3 and has done since 18 months old. I recently had my 2nd child who is 3 months who he loves and is never aggressive towards. He gets on well with children of his own age and older and generally plays well apart from the odd usual 2 year old tantrums over toys etc.
However my child minder has recently taken on more younger children and he really doesn't like them. He winges when they crawl or toddle towards him and he pushes them sometimes. She had to take him home from a baby group as there was a lot of babies and he was pushing. He rarely does this to children his own age.
He has been quite slow on speech, he was assessed in Novemeber and the therapist thought he was fine as showing improvement in language etc. He has improved loads since then as well but the child minder still thinks he's a bit slower with speech and thinks this is why he might her agressive sometimes. He is talking but others find it harder to understand him. I'm taking him back to be assessed again in 2 weeks to see if he can get some extra speech therapy sessions to help him improve more. I can understand him by wonder if he gets frustrated at little ones as they don't talk back or understand him like his own age so he gets annoyed at them? Or a dominance thing like I'm bigger than you etc.
Also I wonder if when he's with me he has my full attention so I can distract him from getting angry at little ones or take him for a timeout if he lashes out but the child minder has other kids to deal with so can't give him as much attention now. He's due to start pre school in September for 15hrs and ive enquired to see if they have space to take him earlier as wonder if being with children all his own age would benefit him more now and get him ready for school next year when he's just turned 4.
Has anyone got any tips for dealing with aggression to younger children or been through similar? Just wanting some reassurance really I suppose.
Thanks in advance mums! X
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My 2.5 year old boy is aggressive to smaller children - help!
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Indigo1990 · 08/05/2016 13:56
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