Help, my DD has been horrible.
Background, DP has been in her life since she was 6mo she see her BioD every other weekend for a few hours. Calls both Daddy (differentiated slightly).
From contact last week BioD wants to pick her up from school, he's asked via text before said no as he 'forgets' to follow through 9 times out of 10. But he(BioD) has told her he wants too, I'm tired of making excuses (had a load of abuse via text from hin) so said to DD no he can't pick you up as he always forgets and always prioritises something or someone else rather than picking you up. This was Tues.
Cue yesterday crying as BioD doesn't think she is important, told her she was the most important thing in the world to me she has Mum and Dad (my DP).
Today at a party entertainer ask her a wish, cue down mic I wish I had a daddy, I didn't hear this (went to toilet) but DP her SD who has done the job for 5 years was (said everyone looked at him, he's not impressed but to leave it).
I've asked DD said she wished for more family time, thing is she has done this before to a carpet sales man (I don't have a daddy) a year ago.
FGS she has two, her BioD (refer to him as that as walked out when she was weeks old never done the ft job) and StepD she is loved alround (although BioD says he doesn't love her to me, she has a fab time when she goes (and he's in ), court wise I have to make her available, I'm sure he doesn't say this to her just to keep me on edge).
I don't know what to do, it's not nice, it's attention seeking, do I hug her or throttle her.
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Balanced12 · 24/04/2016 13:46
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