Apologies if this is long. DS1 is oldest of 3, he is 8. He has a genetic condition (but not one which affects day to day life). He has dyspraxia and autistic traits (haven't pushed for a diagnosis).
He is socially awkward and fairly isolated at school. He and DS2 (5) have been going to a hobby since Xmas. Today, not for the first time, he refused to go. But, not just "I won't go". He dithered, he said he was going, then he wasn't, until, as I had explained, it was too late and the class had started.
I tried not to get too involved. I got his siblings ready, reminded him what to do and waited for him in the car.
He was ready, got in the car, refused to do his seatbelt and then left the car when I got out to do it.
I don't know what the fuck to do with him. I'm doing a parenting course at the moment to help me deal with him. I didn't lose my temper, I acknowledged his feelings.
I feel bad for his brother who missed out on his hobby because DS1 was behaving like an arse.
Any advice? What do we do next week when the same thing happens?
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weebarra · 21/04/2016 17:32
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