My DS is 16mo and has developed some kind of absolute terror around having his nappy changed or being dressed/undressed. He even refuses to go in the bath sometimes, despite being a certified water baby since birth.
Every dirty nappy means we both need a shower and a full change of clothes, the floor needs mopping, and some toys need cleaning. It gets literally everywhere, because he writhes around and tries to get up and run away. He also screams like he's being murdered. If I heard it out of context, I'd think there was something horrendous happening to him. It upsets me and he cries for a while afterwards.
What the hell is going on? How do I get past this? I try really hard to be fun and make it a game, sing to him, distract him with something he isn't usually allowed, let him be involved (passing wipes etc), but nothing works and he just completely melts down.
I have never knowingly hurt him or caused any kind of trauma that he might relate to nappy changes. I'm at a complete loss. If it is just age related, how long does it last? I'm at the end of my tether with it.
Alternatively, is there any way I can make his poo more solid? He has a balanced diet and enough water, not too much fruit etc. But his nappies are as runny as a baby's. I was always told they should have a high fat, low fibre diet, but should I increase his fibre?
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Nappy changing terror
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PeaceLoveAndJaffaCakes · 21/04/2016 12:02
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