I'm at my wits end with my son. He is 12 years old and since about the age of 10 he just doesn't smile and has this laid back attitude like he's too cool for anything. I've taken him on numerous holidays and even sent him to a three day camp to do canoeing, zip lining etc and he said he was bored! I even took him to Disney at the weekend and he barely spoke to anyone and even walked off as I was about to get on a ride with him. He does it in such a calm manner which is so frustrating. He academically is amazing, top grades in school and works so hard without much assistance from me. However I just need some energy from him. It's like he has nothing inside and is so lazy. He'd rather sit at home doing nothing. He used to do martial arts which again he found boring, I've tried talking him out for walks, encouraged him to play outside with his friends but that only lasts a few minutes and he comes back saying he is bored. I feel so unappreciated and I'm at my wits end. His lack of anything is quite embarrasing when family and friends try talking to him as he just mopes about like kevin the teenager. Anyone have any suggestions on how to bring this 12 year old back to life? Me and his dad are very lively people!
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12 year old doesn't enjoy or appreciate anything!
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costamum79 · 31/03/2016 21:40
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