Dd is 5 and has naturally always been v high needs since she was a baby, like the Duracell bunny on an emotional roller coaster non stop all day and v clingy, but I could cope with it (I'm a sahm but due to health issues), because her sleeping was always so good, 12-13 hours solid all night.
Over the last year since she was 4 and started school her sleep has deteriorated, it started with not wanting to go to bed, then getting out of bed multiple times a night, totally normal at that age we thought, but then moving on to being terrified of sleeping on her own, so because she gets herself in such a state that she is sick from crying, we let her come in with us when she woke in the night. This then progressd to wanting to go to bed in our room from the outset when it's her bedtime, and now she is terrified of being on her own even in our room during the evening for the few hours we're downstairs before we come to bed.
She's an only child and I can't help thinking if she had a sibling to sleep in with she'd be ok, but then not every only child has a phobia about sleeping on their own, do they?!
Nobody is getting a decent night sleep, the GP wasn't much help and just gave us a bottle of travel sickness syrup as a sedative to "re-set" her sleeping which we weren't comfortable using. We've tried all the usual gentle approaches, and when we've got short with her or taken her back to bed she has gotten herself in an hysterical state. I'm baffled about why this started when she'd been the complete opposite for 4 years and such a good sleeper who loved her bed, does anyone have any suggestions of things we can try? The GP said there's nothing they can offer us as a service to help, I thought there might be a sleep clinic or play therapy to get to the cause of it or something?? Please help!
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5 year old dd won't sleep alone
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moochy1 · 28/03/2016 02:22
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