Help DD in year 6 and friendship advice required please. I have never been in a hurry for my DD to grow up too quickly and fortunately she has never wanted to grow up particularly quickly either so no particular problems until the last few weeks. She has always known her own mind and had a small group of like minded friends none of whom were particularly in the 'thick of it'. However, the 'in group' two very small (my DD is very tall) mouthy bitchy girls who go to drama classes and spend a lot of time on social media and being passed about between grandparents, mums friends, dads house etc seem to be at the centre of everything with a few girls on the periphery being selected to be part of their group but only ever occasionally and only ever on the outskirts. My DD's best friend is one such child who is selected occasionally and flattered leaving my DD on her lonesome. Anyway another child in a similar position as my DD's best friend has told a pack of lies about my DD in order to get friendlier with her best friend so I can see again DD left out. This other girl is a drama queen and goes round various groups of two's trying to split up the friendships. What advice would you give my DD or your DD in a similar position please? She still does guides with her best friend at the moment but isn't keen on doing much else and from the stories she tells me about most of the other girls in her school I don't think she's in any hurry to meet another friend. I want to tell her to sod the lot of them and their bitchyness but don't want her to be lonely. Also tempted to let fate take its course but she was worried yesterday as they have to choose two best friends whose class they want to be in at a big secondary school. I've told her we'll try and have more fun as a family (haven't had much lately as hubbie working loads of hours etc), she can join something else she is interested in and we can think of a plan together tonight to make things more fun for her help!!
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Help DD in year 6 friendships need help understanding the exclusivity and manipulation!!
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Brighteyes27 · 02/03/2016 10:16
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