My son 'bangs' his head on soft things like cushions, beds, the sofa etc when he is upset and angry. It doesn't do any visible damage but he really goes for it. Like he's moshing. I'm guessing he finds this to be soothing in some way, and it's also a clear way of him communicating his feelings (he will stop to check we're watching or sometimes move into our view, I don't think he does it without an audience).
Two things really - one is, is it dangerous in any way?
And secondly, once he's got started, how should we deal with it? Currently we ask/tell him firmly to stop. (I know really we need to avoid this happening in the first place which we usually do, but sometimes when he's over tired and angry, it's too late).
Also, it would be good to know if this kind of behaviour is anything to be worried about...?
Thanks.
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8 year old ds banging head on soft surfaces when angry
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coveredinsnot · 22/02/2016 20:18
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