I've always thought dd's behaviour is too good to be true - well she's finally slipped.
Tidying her room I found a heap of spent matches and a burnt-out candle in the cubby-hole cupboard (a dead-space under the attic stairs that we don't use). She confessed to playing in there with the little girl next door, who is only 6 (dd is just 8).
Worse still, LGND was only here because we were looking after her while her little brother was in hospital.
Felt sick at though of what could have happened. She didn't allow LGND to touch any matches, apparently, because 'you're too young'. We have allowed dd to light candles under supervision and always been v. strict about safety.
So I've told her why I was upset & worried for their safety. I said no sweets for a week, no pocket money for a month, and you go next door and explain that it was naughty and you're in big trouble for it.
Is this reasonable and how do others deal with it? DH expresses no view but leaves it to me.
Aaaargh!
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Playing with matches - help
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eemie · 28/12/2006 12:52
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