Just had parents' evening and I'm worried about DS, who is in reception.
He has made a special friend (who is also find of DS - it is reciprocal) and they get on like a house on fire. However DS seems overly dependent on him and it's starting to concern his teacher.
Seems to go beyond just wanting to play with him, DS gets anxious when his friend nips to the loo, or if he's not standing with him in lunch queue etc. and even when he is in his focus group doing work, DS is looking for his friend. He is distracted unless together and can end up in panicky tears about it.
It feels to me like is a separation anxiety thing, he is DS's 'person' or reassurance at school when me or DH aren't around.
He gets on well with other children and plays with them ok in other scenarios (at park, party, or play date with family/friends etc).
The teacher has no concerns about anything else. Says he's a lovely, polite little boy who joins in and picks stuff up quickly. His reading etc is coming along fine. But his anxiety is worrying her and she wants the LSA to assess him.
Should I be worried? Or does this sound like normal settling in stuff? DH likened it to children having comfort items (blankets, teddies etc) which DS doesn't have, he has comfort people. Anyone have any experience with this or ideas how to help him deal with his anxiety?
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DS 4yo anxious at school
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WaccaWacca · 09/02/2016 19:55
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