hello a couple of weeks ago my ds was at a friend's house and was shown a few minutes of some zombie killer playstation game or other - now he's more withdrawn than usual and his sleep is all over the place. We only found out what the problem was when, after his second morning of screaming wake ups he said "[evil playmate] showed me a song and now I can't get it out of my head". Now he won't sleep unless me or DH are there and wakes within half an hour if we leave the bed. He's exhausted, we're exhausted and his terror isn't getting any less. He's also much more fearful of things that wouldn't normally bother him. We're not bringing it up because we don't want to make it more of an issue, but it ain't getting any better - anyone had similar upsets? How do we deal??
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Your poor little DS, that must have been horrible for him to see. 
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I remember when my sister was little she suddenly developed an overwhelming fear that spiders were going to attack her while she was asleep , and she was waking up screaming about spiders. I'm not sure if this stemmed from anything in particular that happened like in your son's case, but my dad and step mum bought her a cuddly toy dog and told her it was a special spider eating dog and it would keep her safe at night. The cuddly dog really helped her break the pattern of fear and night mares. Perhaps a special new cuddly might help.
A friend's son of similar age had a fear of witches, he wouldn't sleep, wouldn't go into certain rooms etc. She took it very seriously and used to banish the witches very loudly, they'd shout "go away silly witches" together. She also got her son to draw what he sees and then she'd crumple up the paper and put it in the bin, thus throwing the witches away. After a couple of months the fear abated and he was fine. He still doesnt like a ton of Disney films 
Best of luck with your LO and a ((hug))
Thank you all you good kind people - this is really useful. We've dealt with other fears (rats) by addressing them in a sort of diminishing way, we should look at what we can identify here and give it a go again. A dreamcatcher is a great idea too. This may have begun with zombies, but generally it's more of a kind of an un-nameable general fear. Noises set him off. The dark. Being alone. He won't skip off to his kung fu classes any more. It's like he's regressed about 2 years. 
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