My DS aged 4 goes to nursery. He is a very happy, polite and well-mannered little boy (usually!). He is sociable and has a lot of friends and parents and teachers all speak very highly of him.
But there is one issue that I cannot seem to resolve regarding his behaviour.
He NEVER hurts children intentionally. I can say that with my hand across my heart but like all 4 year olds, he gets giddy and sometimes he will hurt someone accidentally.
Today he hurt his friend. His friend did try to politely tell him this and when I drew it to my DS's attention and explained that I knew it was an accident but it is still polite to say sorry, he wouldn't. He will not EVER apologise for doing something wrong! He shies away, goes in a huff and quite often will cry when we (gently) ask him to say sorry.
He is a sensitive boy and when he has caught his 11 month old sister and hurt her, he quite often cries about it.
I think he feels regret for hurting accidentally but to not apologise is bugging me!
I apologised to his friend on his behalf but not sure whether I am being OTT about the insistence of an apology or whether I am right to persevere. To do the latter, often ends up with him in tears (out of regret for the hurt I think!)
Sorry for being long winded for such a simple and trivial matter but it is bugging the hell out of me!
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My son will never ever say sorry!
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8reasonstohide · 02/02/2016 09:55
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