Hi,
I'm really hoping for some advice. We have 2 daughters, the eldest is 4 in April and our youngest in 2 in a couple of weeks. The problems are with the (soon to be) 2 year old.
She is INCREDIBLY dependant on me (Mummy) at times, but not all the time. She happily stays with grandparents 3 days a week while I work, it only seems when I'm around that there are problems. She will scream "mummy mummy" uncontrollably if she is being expected to do something she doesn't like (get in the car seat, the bug, pout on her PJ's, eat tea, have a bath you name it!) she gets so upset if I don't pick her up and hug her that sometimes she vomits :(
Bedtime is an issue currently and she will call out for me and sob and scream for a good 20 mins each night, when she has always been a wonderful sleeper and used to love snuggling down in her cot. She's like a different child!
I've read about separation anxiety and the terrible 2's (tantrums etc) but these are so extreme. My Husband has been shocked lately when he's witnessed some of it at weekends. You literally can do nothing with her and ignoring it doesn't seem to work either (as I say she just reaches the point of vomiting!).
She also has a HUGE fear of the bath at the moment, and when we mention nit she says she feels sick and screams blue murder if/when we try to encourage her to bathe. We've tried everything but nothing works. She has also started to smack her older sister when she doesn't get her own way, which we address immediately and make her apologise for, but it's starting to affect her (the elder daughter) - she can't settle at night most nights due to hearing her sister screaming and they are both waking during the night often.
It's a million miles away from how things were 6 months ago when we seemed to have cracked it.
I guess I'm just looking for ideas on jus how bad 'normal' 2 year old tantrums and separation anxiety can be, as we didn't have anything like this with our first daughter.
Thank you in advance! x
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Is this 'normal' 2 year old behaviour? - I'm at my wits end :(
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mom2daisypie · 23/01/2016 19:43
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