I love the absolute bones of my son (21mths). He is super cute, can be incredibly loving and funny and charming and clever. However....he is so different from my calm quiet DD. He wakes at 5am every damn day and pretty much starts shouting his head off straight away. He is having constant tantrums all day, he hits me and his poor sister all the time and no amount of sternly telling him"no hitting" seems to be having any effect. He starts throwing things within about 5 minutes of starting a new activity and its getting to the point where I can't face getting anything out for him to do. The school run is hell because he fights getting his shoes and coat on, fights getting in the car, fights getting in his pushchair, screams his head off during the drop off and the only thing that makes him stop is bribing him with food which I know is a slippery slope. I have to drive as its too far to walk and I can't let him walk from the car as he just bolts off. I'm finding myself losing my temper with him more and more. I've had an absolutely horrible day with him today and feel awful :( Can anyone give me some advice on how I should be handling him?
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How do I handle my spirited 21 mth old? Feel like I'm failing :(
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DomesticGoddess31 · 15/01/2016 18:54
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